A loving reminder: IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU’VE NEVER HAD, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO DO SOMETHING YOU’VE NEVER DONE.
No one is going to do the work for you. Great things don’t happen without great effort. You get out of [ life, your job, your relationship, (fill in the blank) ] what you put into it.
Complaining about the problem isn’t a solution.
If you aren’t happy, if you dread Mondays, if your relationship isn’t fulfilling, if you feel uncomfortable in your body, YOU have to decide to make the change. I believe in you and will help you get there, but you’ve got to want to go through the pain & discomfort of change more than staying comfortable. Because change and achieving big goals are not easy things, but they are SO WORTH IT!
Say yes to yourself first. You’ve got to get really clear about what it is you want, start internally, be sure you are dedicated to your pursuit. THEN you can ask others for support and guidance. If you start asking for help but aren’t ready to put in the work, you will lose credibility and potentially the ability to ask for help from those people again.
So I say it with love and as a reminder to myself: NOBODY CARES. WORK HARDER. There is always someone out there working harder, pushing the limits, innovating, growing, achieving. It’s not impossible. Just #KeepGoing. I’m here to support you.
Make it a great week my friends!
Check out Creating Space's #MindsetMonday podcast on a related topic: How to care less about what other people think.